Monday, August 8

It's almost over (yay!)

Thanks for the prayers today. Please keep praying. Here's the skinny (aka - boring house hunting details follow...)

So the land bank has had our application for a week now. We were to have an answer, one way or the other, by Thursday. Last Thursday. No word. Nothing Friday, either. We called the realtor and left messages. No word back. Not Friday. Not Saturday. Not Sunday.

In the meantime, we were told that the interest rate for a land loan is about two WHOLE points higher than on a conventional loan, and even one point higher even than we'd been told before. That was information we didn't have before. Ouch.

Our lease expired the end of July and our rent went up another hundred and fifty dollars. OK... This isn't getting any better.

SO, we decided over the weekend that if there were any more hurdles to this loan, it was time to pull the plug. It's grown too big. It's taking too long, and it is not going to be feasible. It's a real mess. But, we wanted to touch base today, hoping we'd have a final answer, one way or the other.

When I called this morning, we got our answer. They hadn't received a signed contract from the realtor last week. They still did not have the letter from the appraiser (another part the realtor was to have taken to them). The bank had not done their new appraisal. They had not even pulled Zorak's credit yet. Nothing. They had not done one single thing last week. At all. And the interest rate went up again.

Well, those are hurdles. At this point, we'd have to wait another two weeks to hear back as to whether or not they are even willing to do the loan with no money down. That puts us an extra two months here in the apartment, IF the loan can be done, trying to swing both an increased rental payment and a much higher mortgage payment than anticipated. And that pretty much takes out any leeway we had. Timer dings. Time's up.

We called the realtor back to withdraw the offer. Suddenly, she's available. And now, she's gung-ho on keeping this deal alive. Which, yes, I can appreciate her perspective. But when she calls us now and says she is meeting with the president of the bank to get this deal pushed through... we can't help but wonder where she was a month ago when we were trying to get the ball rolling? She knew this was a matter of getting things done and closing by the end of the month. We've been very upfront about the situation. But the bare facts are that we cannot get the financing we need, and we can't seem to be able to get anything pushed through in a timely manner and the eleventh hour is not the time to bring out your connections and "make it happen". The window has closed.

It was a difficult decision to make, and although we're not happy to have had to make it, we know it was right. If we kept pushing and pulling, we'd have ended up with no capital to make repairs and payments far above what we could budget. That's the best case scenario. The most likely result is that we'd have stayed in limbo another two weeks, only to get the final "no" and then be left to start again from square one.

So. There we are. And it's actually good. Not spectacular, but definitely the right decision. For a number of reasons.

Part two tomorrow...

Kiss those babies!
~Dy

8 comments:

Mamabird said...

Oh, Dy, how difficult. I'm sorry it didn't work out this time, but proud of you for making the decision. Your reasoning is sound. And it seems that this course of action will keep you free and able to make a move on a deal that leaves you some "wiggle room," financially. Flexibility is always a good thing.

(((Hugs))) to you.
Karen

Julie D. said...

Sometimes closing that window, although disappointing, can leave a very definite feeling of relief, making it possible to move forward. I hope that is what part II confirms! :-)

Thom said...

The lady on A Series of Unfortunate Events who had a horrible fear of realtors...that's starting to make sense to me now.

I'm so sorry for the disappointment.
As I said before, you're attitude on this Forever Home journey is really inspiring. You're still in my prayers.

melissa said...

Oh my goodness. I am still praying, here. I can't wait to hear part two! Which could be titled "Movin'On". Seriously, I will be praying for you all this week.

J-Lynn said...

Repeat after me, "socks in the hallway". You'll get there. ;-)

Hugs, still praying!

Stephanie not in TX said...

Kudos to you for making the tough call that's right for you.

Crissy said...

Oh, Dy. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

I'm praying for better opportunities to come your way.

Crissy

Jules said...

I just wanted to say that I give you guys a lot of credit for knowing what your limits are and then being strong enough to say let's get off this roller coaster while we still can.
That shows a huge amount of trust that something better, something easier, is on the horizon. Good for you!
I will pray for your peace and sanity during all of this! ;)